We have set up the site just for you, since we've been there too. We welcome bisexual and bi curious from all walks of life for frank and honest bi chat, meet and discussion. Perhaps you're single ? Or maybe you're couple, or perhaps in a relationship, and don't know where and how to start, or if this is even for you ? Maybe you're experiencing feelings towards other bisexual and bicurious you just can't get your head around ? You'll meet many others just like you in our support sites. And we really hope we can help even if it is just an ear to listen or a bit of advice. One thing's for sure, you'll certainly make some friends along the way !

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At Bi or Not we'd like to think you have just found the favorite bi site, completely dedicated to Bisexual and Bicurious Singles or Couples all over the world. Our goal is to provide a world's first, largest, secure and most effective, non-threatening, sleaze-free support and advice forum for bisexual and bicurious individuals exploring their bisexual desires, romance, passions, dating and love. Perhaps struggling to come to terms with strange feelings towards others ? Or wondering how to 'fit' their bisexuality into their day to day lives ? You will be able to ask bisexual FAQ, take part in discussions, join bisexual fashion show, read about others bi experiences, bi date ideas and of course, meet hot bi singles and couples in your local area.

This site is not pornographic, it's simply a meeting point for likeminded and openminded bi friends struggling with their feelings. With over a million topics and posts, and thousands of members, our community is very attractive and has been bi online dating business for over 12 years!

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When we started Bi or Not we were absolutely amazed by the response. There are obviously a lot of members feeling like us out there. Here are just a few comments some of our gold members have to say...

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